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How to build a happy family — every existing beings on this earth were created in a State of pairs, there is a heaven and Earth, day and night, you and your spouse also, and others.
How to build a happy family
There are a few thing you need to consider in the family.
1. MUTUAL UNDERSTAND
Married it was a meeting of the sacred promise of ties between two different kinds of human beings, different properties, different characters, and many more differences between you and your partner. So, for addressing such differences sometimes there is little debate between you and your partner.
Good attitude that you should specify.
My advice is not to debate the minor to be great, and shall be heard everywhere that would later culminate in the divorce that you don't want.
The best solution you can do if it might just happen, namely:
a. We encourage you to discuss with your spouse, "if one day I was in a State of anger, try to understand my circumstances, and if you also so then I would try to understand, and our little quarrels don't get sound out our room door let alone until heard by the neighbors. "
b. In the Qur'an surat An-nisa verse 19 in mentioned, that are to say: "... And hang out with them in a way that is worth. If you don't like them, (so be patient) because it can be so you do not like something from them, but God makes the good that much "(an-nisa: 19)
In the verse mentioned, hang out with your wife/husband you well without coercion, as well as of mutual understanding with the needs of your partner.
And if at any time you feel bored or you all of a sudden there are things that are not well liked from your partner, you should be patient because maybe it was the ordeal of God or the devil is disorders are trying to disturb the peace of your household.
Be patient, be patient!.
2. EACH OTHER HONEST and TRUST
In the staple Foundation preclude that you must apply to achieve a happy family you want that is open, there is no closed – cover, honest and trust each other.
Who likes being lying to?
Surely you would not like it and hate it!.
If you don't like being lied to, your spouse also don't like if he was lied to, then make it a habit in the lives of your family to always open and there are nothing covered up in any case, unless the privacy in the work of (for example) that are not It is important to know your spouse but you try to not lie in any case.
Actually there are dishonest are allowed make your partner for it came for your spouse.
For example: when you receive a gift-slippers that don't you like from your spouse, and your partner asks, "like where the prize? Do you like? ", you replied" well, the prize is a nice, I loved it, it's that I want "(though you really don't like it).
In this case there are scholars 'that allows dishonest for you to want to appease the others including your spouse.
3. Enjoy FREE TIME TOGETHER COUPLE
Time is something that is priceless, so from that though in everyday life you and your spouse are equally busy in work each and sometimes hours of work are not the same, automatically you and your partner will be difficult to meet in a fairly long time.
In case like this, you should have a proper schedule to get together in a relaxed time to enjoy both, and if you and your partner can reduce your working hours to be able to enjoy time together in 24 hours.
Spend some time with your spouse will pose a huge chance of being able to create the happiness of you and your partner.
Not only that, being with your partner will add an unforgettable memory in every momen, for togetherness is unforgettable.
Well, that's a little tip on how to build a happy family, hopefully can be motivation to your wife/husband happy.
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